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Why is it so hard to celebrate?

I have always found it easier to see what remains to be done than what I have already done.

By Vilbert Gústafsson

A goal is reached.

Fine.

What next?

A problem is solved.

Good.

Next.

That might sound like a strong work ethic.

But I have started wondering whether rushing straight on is always a strength.

If you never stop when something goes well, what message are you sending yourself?

That it did not matter?

That success was a given?

That you are only allowed to feel pleased when everything is finished?

Which, of course, never happens.

So I have been practising celebrating more.

Not necessarily with any great fanfare.

Sometimes simply stopping and acknowledging: That worked.

I am grateful for that.

It surprises me that this is sometimes harder than doing the work itself.

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